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What is the difference between launching a private search with a Matchmaker and  using a dating service?

Dating services can be very effective, but launching a private search allows for a tailor-made Client experience best suited for those who want every resource possible. While dating services may be limited to the singles within their membership base, Elite Private Search uses a recruitment method. Just like executive headhunters, our recruiting team actively networks to effectively connect with the caliber of potential matches our Clients expect. From there, our Matchmakers use our proven vetting methods to ensure long-term compatibility in a match. Instead of joining a database of singles, our Clients choose to cast their net wider and be 100% proactive.  

Who hires a private matchmaker?

Our Elite clients are successful, busy professionals who are selective and relationship-minded. They hire us to maximize their personal life. Working with an Elite Matchmaker allows these clients to spend their time with family and friends as well as enjoying the activities they love while we search for the special person they deserve, who shares their interests and enhances their lifestyle. These clients expect the highest level of service and find hiring a private matchmaker is the best way to achieve their personal goals.

I am a current or past client of EPS and want to refer a friend to you. What should I do?

Simply reach out to your Elite Matchmaker, they will walk your friend through the process and answer any questions they may have.


What are the costs associated with dating the Elite clients?

There is absolutely no cost or membership required to date our Elite clients. To be considered as a match, fill out a profile form and our office will review your information.

I just submitted my profile. What happens next?

Our office will contact you to schedule an interview if they believe you are a potential match for our Elite clients. We meet all potential matches in-person to discuss your profile.

Do I set up the date?

No, we take care of all date arrangements, including coordinating schedules, choosing a location and making reservations if necessary.

Who pays for the date?

The dates we arrange consist of drinks, coffee, lunch, dinner or even brunch. While many of our Elite clients may choose to pay for their date, we don’t make assumptions on who will pay.

Are your Elite clients all middle-aged men?

No, our Elite clients are both men and women and varying in age range from mid 20’s to late 60’s.

Will I see photos of the Elite clients before our date?

Many of our Elite clients choose to date through our service because of the confidential nature of our search. Some Elite clients are open to sharing photos, it varies by client. If photos are not available to share, we will describe the client to you including physical and personality traits as well as hobbies and interests.

How successful are the dates you arrange?

Many of our dates result in second dates which have ultimately lead to marriages. When a romantic connection is not apparent, many clients simply find the act of meeting new and interesting people a success.

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